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struggling with life, don't know what to do, lost motivation to do anything.

Submitted by refusable at 01-03-2025, 01:16 AM


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I started working real jobs since I was 14, ive always dreamed of making a shit load of money and being succesful on my own. I started saving my money and worked 2 jobs and even switched to online school so that I can work more. After leaving real school and going to online to get my diploma i saved enough money to buy a BMW as that was my goal. I figured make a stupid purchase while your young with no bills is the best time to. I then proceeded to crash that car from not having nearly enough expierence with a 500+ hp car. Ever since then I havent been able to figure out what I want to do with my life. I ended up quiting my main job just last week that ive been at for over 2 years. They got new staff and i no longer was wanted there so I left. Now im working a job where I can only get a couple days a week. I just want to find some success, i feel like a failure and ive ruined my relationship with my parents. Ive always wanted to make money from sitting behind my desk because I feel like thats where my skillset is. Im starting cybersecurity in August and I have a plenty of time until then. I just want to start making money on my own. Ive started trying several new side hustels online with no success which has only lead me to feel more like a failure. I thought quiting my job would turn up well, I figured if i bet on myself and took that leap of faith i could succeed. That hasn't worked. Now im essentialy job less, left with 0 motivation to better myself and the only way I can see my life turning around is if I were able to make some money online, make the money back that I lost working for that car. But Im struggling to find work, to find anything to do that would bring in income. I've only failed trying new things. I would love some advice from anyone who has been in this position themself, I just turned 18 and I only have about $2k to my name. I would consider myself a car person, i have a love for cars which lead me to make that stupid purchase, unfortanetly crashing it also has caused me to doubt myself and has ruined my confidence to really do anything at all. I've disappointed the people who care for me and I have nothing to show for myself. I have no hobbies, or interests outside of making money because i feel like I need to redeem myself/fix what I did. I don't know what to do with my life. The only goal/things ive ever wanted in life directly correlate to making money. I don't know if any of yall feel the same way, but Im in such a weird spot in my life where I feel extremely lost and as if I dug a whole for myself I cannot get out of. Any advice from someone who was in a simular position would be greatly appreciated. enough ranting and complaining 

What gives you guys a sense of fulfillment, I personally dont enjoy anything but cars and making money, perhaps thats why I feel this way, but theres not much else I enjoy. Im interested in tech but I only see that as a career path not a hobby.
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01-03-2025, 01:16 AM refusable Wrote:
I started working real jobs since I was 14, ive always dreamed of making a shit load of money and being succesful on my own. I started saving my money and worked 2 jobs and even switched to online school so that I can work more. After leaving real school and going to online to get my diploma i saved enough money to buy a BMW as that was my goal. I figured make a stupid purchase while your young with no bills is the best time to. I then proceeded to crash that car from not having nearly enough expierence with a 500+ hp car. Ever since then I havent been able to figure out what I want to do with my life. I ended up quiting my main job just last week that ive been at for over 2 years. They got new staff and i no longer was wanted there so I left. Now im working a job where I can only get a couple days a week. I just want to find some success, i feel like a failure and ive ruined my relationship with my parents. Ive always wanted to make money from sitting behind my desk because I feel like thats where my skillset is. Im starting cybersecurity in August and I have a plenty of time until then. I just want to start making money on my own. Ive started trying several new side hustels online with no success which has only lead me to feel more like a failure. I thought quiting my job would turn up well, I figured if i bet on myself and took that leap of faith i could succeed. That hasn't worked. Now im essentialy job less, left with 0 motivation to better myself and the only way I can see my life turning around is if I were able to make some money online, make the money back that I lost working for that car. But Im struggling to find work, to find anything to do that would bring in income. I've only failed trying new things. I would love some advice from anyone who has been in this position themself, I just turned 18 and I only have about $2k to my name. I would consider myself a car person, i have a love for cars which lead me to make that stupid purchase, unfortanetly crashing it also has caused me to doubt myself and has ruined my confidence to really do anything at all. I've disappointed the people who care for me and I have nothing to show for myself. I have no hobbies, or interests outside of making money because i feel like I need to redeem myself/fix what I did. I don't know what to do with my life. The only goal/things ive ever wanted in life directly correlate to making money. I don't know if any of yall feel the same way, but Im in such a weird spot in my life where I feel extremely lost and as if I dug a whole for myself I cannot get out of. Any advice from someone who was in a simular position would be greatly appreciated. enough ranting and complaining 

What gives you guys a sense of fulfillment, I personally dont enjoy anything but cars and making money, perhaps thats why I feel this way, but theres not much else I enjoy. Im interested in tech but I only see that as a career path not a hobby.

Bro try to look professional help or talk to your friend or family about this, WHY ARE YOU POSTING THIS ON A RANDOMASS FORUM
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No cap you need to geek out on adderall and study cybersecurity, just become a professional then build a portfolio and make bank.
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02-03-2025, 06:03 AM alleyoop Wrote:
No cap you need to geek out on adderall and study cybersecurity, just become a professional then build a portfolio and make bank.
In a few years these will be a meme
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02-03-2025, 12:40 PM paranoid0001 Wrote:
02-03-2025, 06:03 AM alleyoop Wrote:
No cap you need to geek out on adderall and study cybersecurity, just become a professional then build a portfolio and make bank.
In a few years these will be a meme
adderall will be meme? 
meth aint no joke, hitler loved that shit bruh
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then don't do anything. you will be surprised on how many people would like to live without do anything
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wow you guys are assholes
g-d gives his hardest struggles to its biggest winners bro -- every single factor between the car and the side hustles were all learning experiences to build a stronger foundation
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